If you listen to popular Christian radio, you've heard the song "
This is the Stuff" by Francesca Batistelli. If you don't listen, it goes something like this:
I lost my keys in the great unknown,
And call me please
cause I can't find my phone.
This is the stuff that drives me crazy
This is the stuff that's getting to me lately
In the middle of my little mess,
I forget how big I'm blessed.
This is the stuff that gets under my skin
But I've got to trust you know exactly what You're doing
Might not be what I would choose,
but this is the stuff You use.
For over a month now I've been toying with a regular post on the blog about all the little things- all the stuff, the mess, that in the moment drives me absolutely crazy. The stuff that makes no sense. The stuff that, in the end, really isn't that big a deal. The Spilled Milk. The stuff I shouldn't cry over, but I sometimes do.
This mom's life is full of Spilled Milk. And I only think of writing about it once the mess is cleaned up and I can laugh about it. The other day I found a bottle of liquid children's Tylenol dumped out on the upstairs carpet. I curse the makers of Tylenol for putting dye in it and leaving my white
Berber carpet with a purple stain on it. I also chastise myself for not
putting the cover on more tightly, thus making it childproof. I chastise my adorable toddler for getting into mommy's bathroom cupboards and plunk her in a chair.
"I really need to start that blog post about Spilled Milk" I mumble to myself.
I go downstairs to get her a cup of milk. As I put the milk jug away, I knock over the cup I just poured. It spills down my cupboards and in between the stove and counter. I groan in frustration... then laugh at the irony of it all. Spilled Milk. Yes, I need to start that blog post!
The point of Spilled Milk is to laugh over it, instead of crying. It's not complaining, it's reality. Of the 24 x 7 hours in a week, I *might* not be in this house with these kids for five of them. Things are bound to get crazy, messy, and even hilarious (in hindsight).
So the carpet has a new
lavender stain on it. I greatly dislike carpet.
Kathryn got hold of the markers and wrote all over the living room wall above the makeshift couch (it's really part of our patio set). No amount of Magic Eraser will take it off. We plan to paint it... eventually.
At our former home, we had a
wood stove installed with a brick hearth. We had four fans that were supposed to go into the wall to circulate warm air, but we never installed them. That was five years ago. They came with us to the new house. I think I threw them in a yard sale box, but no amount of hunting for them has made them appear. You see, we want them now. To help circulate the warm air from the stove in our new house. It's been quite cold, you know.
I did however find my Christmas
CDs! Not quite a month after Christmas. I'm so excited, I'm so happy. It's snowing and the perfect day to listen to some yuletide carols. Oh wait... my CD player is suddenly not working. No joy for me.
This same day I was woken in the night, two hours apart, by my oldest children who were sick. With evidence to support it. Honestly, this is the first time this has happened to me! I've never had two children sick (with evidence) at once. So I got very little sleep and as the sun came up over the horizon,
shedding light into my living room, I discovered the children weren't the only ones who were sick. A cat was too. All over my makeshift chair (which is really a patio set) in the living room.
And perhaps the froth on the Spilled Milk, for this edition anyway, is the brand new (not even a week old new) comforter set I just bought that now has several snags in it thanks to two kitties with claws that like to make my bed THEIR bed. This is the comforter set I admired for five months before finally deciding it was exactly what I wanted. And I admit I didn't want to cry over this particular batch of Spilled Milk, I wanted to send the kitties packing. Instead, I have locked them out of my room- forever! And while I have not laughed about this, I have forgiven them.
Reminder: I'm not complaining.
I like order. I like things to stay new and fresh looking. I like peaceful nights of sleep.
I like the cats. And I use the term *like* loosely in their case.
I love my kids. I love my husband. I love our home.
It's a mess, but I'm blessed.